Ask a Matchmaker: Top 8 Benefits of Successful Matchmaking

For singles, the world is not easy.

Singles are still having more difficulty than ever settling into committed, long-term relationships in today’s digital dating environment.

Thank goodness, hope remains. Matchmakers have been playing a game of cupid and matching singles into ideal pairs since the beginning of time.

1. Your chances of falling in love will be higher.

The dating pool is so full of emotionally unavailable people that it seems impossible to find a suitable single these days. Luckily, matchmakers facilitate the process of finding love.

Matchmaking, in contrast to other dating methods, gets right to the point. It’s the ideal course of action for singles who are serious about commitment.

2. Time, energy, and money will all be saved.

Modern dating is not enjoyable at all, what with swiping, ghosting, and being left on read. Using a dating app or other online service to find a compatible partner is time-consuming and completely up to you.

3. Your dates will genuinely resemble their online profiles.

The saying “there are many fish in the sea” is unhelpful when the water is contaminated by slimy, unclean catfish.

Nothing is more frustrating than giving someone your time, effort, and emotional labor only to have them prove to be a liar afterwards. 53 percent of Americans lie on their dating profiles, in case you were unaware. What’s even more frightening is that a significant portion of those phony profiles are intended to defraud single people of their money, personal photos, or other tricks that could turn against them.

4. You don’t have to date by yourself

It can be difficult to get back into the dating scene after being away from it for months or even years, particularly if you’re shy or introverted by nature. Should you be struggling to re-enter the dating scene, a matchmaker could be exactly what you need.

Overcoming the fear of dating is the largest obstacle that many single people have, according to a study. It can be nerve-wracking to meet someone new, she admits. “It is my responsibility to ensure that my clients are comfortable enough to enjoy their dates.”

We remove the awkwardness from introductions as a matchmaker.

What if the date is successful?

Whispers and other matchmakers are still available to assist single people at every stage of their relationship. She states, “We’re here to hold your hand throughout the entire dating process as individualized dating coaches.” “You can choose how involved or detached you want us to be.”

5. You’ll socialize with people who aren’t in your regular group.

A study claims that “everyone has an opinion when you’re single.” “Whether or not they are genuinely the right person for you, friends and family are quick to tell you how, who, and why you should date certain people.” Getting paired up with a “friend of a friend” might seem like the simplest route for singles who are merely looking for love.

Experts say that dating people in your established social circle will only lead to more dating disasters.

According to a study, “although other people’s advice can frequently be very helpful, too many unwanted opinions tend to muddy the playing field and usually don’t result in finding lasting partnership.”

Despite their good intentions, loved ones’ advice frequently contradicts itself, confusing singles and making them waste too much time dating the wrong people.

However, matchmakers are impartial, according to a study. “Matchmakers don’t have any stake in who you date, unlike friends or family.”

Are you looking to be paired with someone completely different but equally suitable? The matchmaker’s responsibility is to facilitate that.

6. It is not overt

Have you ever swiped through Tinder just to view a coworker’s profile? Or worse, your supervisor? (To be honest, didn’t you swipe right?)

You know those “meet cutes” in romantic comedies where the lead character and the supporting cast just so happen to cross paths on the street?

That’s completely different from virtually running into your coworkers or other real-life acquaintances on a dating app. It is, in essence, the epitome of awkward.

Thank goodness, The Whispers isn’t like that.

“Our process is completely discreet and confidential, unlike online dating where your information is shared all over the internet,” Whispers claims.

7. Each date is intended to be successful

Imagine yourself and your date, and the two of you seem to be really clicking. After two hours of talking, you’re still laughing, flirting, and enjoying yourselves immensely. Just as you’re getting ready for your wedding, they say something that completely takes you by surprise.

Do you recognize this?

“It’s frequently too late for couples on traditional dating to discuss their views on politics, religion, or aspirations in life,”

This disappointment can be easily avoided with the help of a matchmaker.

She says, “We do all the research on your matches so you don’t have to.” “In this manner, clients can attend their dates with the assurance that, provided the feelings are present, they have every opportunity to succeed.”

A matchmaker conducts all of the preliminary investigation so that you don’t waste time or energy on someone who isn’t even close to being a possible match.

8. Every one of your dates is secure.

Dating is risky whether it takes place offline or on the internet. Have you heard about Ted Bundy? Speaking with a stranger—whether on the phone or in person at a bar—is never entirely safe.

That anxiety about dating can be allayed with matchmaking. Before being granted access to our services, each of our clients is subjected to a rigorous screening procedure, according to Whispers. “Everyone is safe and has undergone screening.”